Single motherhood can be one of the loneliest and most overlooked experiences any woman can face. Whether she is widowed, divorced, or has never been married, a woman who is parenting alone faces an array of challenges that a married parent does not. Although single parenting is much more common than it used to be, it often carries a stigma, including in the church.
No matter how someone became a single mother, they are worthy of love, inclusion, and friendship. If you know someone in this situation, you may wonder how you can offer a single mom help and support.
If you are a single mom, or you know you may become one, you might feel overwhelmed daily by your many responsibilities. Or you might crave a listening ear for all the burdens you carry alone.
Christian counseling and help with parenting and loneliness support is available for single moms.
Biblical reminders for single parenting.
Discouragement and burnout can accompany all parents in their daily lives, but especially those who are raising children alone.
God’s promises in Scripture provide comfort and reassurance that no matter what we are facing, we don’t have to walk through it alone.
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. – Isaiah 41:10, NIV
This passage reminds us that when we feel alone, God is still with us. He gives comfort through his presence and helps us through his supernatural strength. He promises to uphold us, which means giving consistent support and help.
Fear often creeps up when we lack companionship and support. The Lord reassures us that no matter how we feel, we do not need to fear.
Your love, Lord, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies. – Psalm 36:5, NIV
Besides his presence and help, we can also meditate on God’s love and faithfulness. His love for us means he delights in us and takes care of us. His faithfulness means he is unchanging in his actions and purposes. Whatever help we receive from him today will still be there tomorrow.
Although humans often prove themselves untrustworthy, unfaithful, and unloving, God’s character is constant, loving, and true.
Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world. – James 1:27, NIV
As members of the body of Christ, we have the power to make a big difference by offering single moms help and support in tangible ways. Just as we see in this verse from James, God calls us to walk out our faith by showing his love to the most vulnerable people in our society. Single moms often lack a safety net in at least one area.
If you know a woman who is parenting alone, offer to help in practical ways, and be sure to honor her comfort level and spoken needs. Don’t just say, “Let me know what I can do.” Instead, give specific suggestions, which makes it easier for anyone to accept help.
Christian counseling for single mom help.
If you are a single mom or you are seeking to support someone who is a single mom, individual Christian counseling can be a safe and compassionate space for you. Parenting alone is a long-term, exhausting endeavor, and Stone Oak Christian Counseling can provide an emotional and spiritual safety net for moms who need support.
If you are interested in individual Christian counseling in Stone Oak, San Antonio, Texas, fill out our contact form or call our office today at Stone Oak Christian Counseling to discuss your options. We look forward to hearing from you soon.
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Kate Motaung: Curator
Kate Motaung is the Senior Writer, Editor, and Content Manager for a multi-state company. She is the author of several books including Letters to Grief, 101 Prayers for Comfort in Difficult Times, and A Place to Land: A Story of Longing and Belonging...
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